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November 20, 2024 05:33 PM IST
As AR Rahman and Saira announce their separation, read about the musician’s old interview with Simi Garewal where he reveals the intricacies of their partnership
AR Rahman’s relationship with his wife Saira Banu has often been in the headlines, the musician is known for his private nature. However, an old interview with Simi Garewal remains meeting simi grewal 2012 highlighted how Rahman planned his wedding in a refreshingly straightforward manner, away from the glamor of Bollywood romance. What is most interesting in Rehman’s account is the authenticity with which he describes his first meeting with Saira. It was not a grand ceremony, devoid of the usual Bollywood clichés, but a simple meeting that touched his heart. Saira was a fan of his work even before they met, which added an interesting layer to their relationship.
Rehman told that he opted for arranged marriage not because of tradition but because of his busy career. “I didn’t have time to go and look for a bride,” he confessed, recalling how during the height of his career with films his focus was entirely on his music. Rangeela (1995) and Bombay (1995). At the age of 29, she felt the time was right, so she turned to her mother to find a suitable partner. Rahman’s request was simple: “I want an ordinary wife – someone who won’t give me too much trouble so that I can continue my music.” He laughed when Simi reminded him of her other characteristics: “Some education, some beauty, and a lot of humility.”
When asked about her real personality, contrary to Saira’s prediction, Rehman described her as a person with two sides. “She’s cool, and she’s calm, and when she’s angry, she’s angry. There are two aspects to it. Initially, she would get frustrated… I mean, not going out. You can’t go out shopping or, you know,” he said. But he also revealed that he had prepared her for the unconventional lifestyle she would lead with him, adding, “I told her right from the beginning what kind of life she was going to live. It was an agreement earlier.”
This candid insight into their relationship highlights the simplicity and understanding that laid the foundation of Rehman and Saira’s marriage. The couple, who announced their divorce on Tuesday evening, have three children – Khatija, Rahima and Ameen. In a statement issued by Rahman on “Even the throne of God can tremble under the weight of broken hearts.”
The couple have also requested privacy in a joint statement shared by their lawyer.
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