In love we have the power to feel alive, inspired and deeply connected. But sometimes, in the enthusiasm of romance, we slip into being “delulu” (confusion) – only what we want to see and ignore the truth. While dreaming is part of love, losing touch with reality can harm both your emotional health and relationship.
Here are clear indications that you can see reality in love, as well as tips to keep yourself on the ground:-
1. You make stories instead of seeing the facts
If you often assume that a person likes you without clear tasks, you can imagine the connection that are not real. Love thrives on mutual effort, not perception.
Reality checks: Inspect their functions, not only their words. Efforts, stability, and respect sometimes speak loudly compared to sweet gestures.
2. You ignore the red flag
From constant excuse to lack of commitment, it is easy to present the red flag – but it is difficult to accept when you are affected. Ignoring them in the name of “true love” often causes heartbreak.
Reality Check: Pay attention to the pattern, not promises. If they repeatedly disappoint, it is time to question their intentions.
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3. All day you communicate
It is normal to imagine your crush or partner, but if you are spending time in imaginary scenarios compared to real conversations, you can avoid the truth.
Reality check: Direct communication makes real connections. Instead of magically waiting to “achieve it”, openly express your feelings openly.
4. You excuse bad behavior
Constantly defending their actions – even when they hurt you – is a major sign of confusion. Saying things like “they are just busy” or “they will change” often get caught in unhealthy patterns.
Reality checks: Honor and kindness are non-oblivious. If they do not treat you both, they cannot be right.
5. You are more invested than they are
If you always make a calling, texting, or plan, while they barely respond, the imbalance can be painful. Assuming that they care in the same way without proof, there is a wishful thinking.
Reality checks: Relationships should feel balanced. Both partners should contribute equally to grow it.
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6. You attract attention with love
Here is a praise, there is a messing message-sometimes we make temporary attention mistakes for long-term affection. But meditation is not the same as commitment.
Reality checks: Love is shown in continuity, effort and honor – not only in fleeting moments of attraction.
Being “delulu” in love may feel dreamy in a short time, but it often leads to disappointment. True love requires clarity, honesty and balance. By identifying these signs, you can protect your emotional good and build relationships based on reality, not on the basis of fantasy.
